MidLife Crisis
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What brings a midlife crisis into your life?
Chasing, wishing to re-live and blaming your Old Life
When you aint happy, ghosts from your old life pop up, making you believe you can grab the past and reshape your future with the same mind that created your haunting present.
You wouldn’t purchase a gift you know you will return just to feel included. So don’t re-do all the shit that hurt you just to show off your wound.
Focusing on the old life tricks you into thinking you can escape the life you don’t want by ignoring responsibilities. Everything old dies. So, when you allow the past to lead your life, you run from peace and success.
Crisis comes when you feel like you’re letting family down while trying to keep your head up. You only want to face people you don’t love because their disappointment never cuts into what you want. They don’t mind you being stuck in the excuse of trying to escape. They want someone who doesn’t mind being left behind. It means one less person in their way.
New Life
When you are happy you find sanity in the madness of making it last. You put the ones you love first because they will push and drag you with them. Make sure you avoid the misery of people who only give you a second when expressing disappointment.
Crisis comes from no motion towards improvement-so you force yourself to become the person you wanted to avoid.
Regret Life
Do people really experience regret? If you did it, you must’ve meant it. You can make the excuse- “I didn’t think about every consequence.” But that’s like saying and believing “For better or for worse.” You should never help someone feel better about habitually doing what moves a healthy relationship in reverse-that’s like tying a just got married charm to the back of a hearse.—-If you believe that, you are in a crisis.
Loving The Wrong Person
The sex doesn’t mean they deserve to live in your head. Lust is the mindfuck that turns men to suckers-so they never get what they want, just what others decide to give. Men need to have dick discipline. Chasing every tail gets you pinned to a situation you’ll regret entering. And beating your way out gives you strikes that take you out the game and make you impotent.
Not Handling Your Business:
Check yourself. Being broke is and will always be bad for your health. If you have the sense to waste time, you can create moments to move forward and create instead of waiting to be rewarded.
OutKast said get up, get out, and get it. Self-respect comes from providing what books and the gram never fill. Acting on the knowledge and delivering desired outcomes helps you teach those under you the opposite of squalor. You will gain skills to make life seem livable, and lovable instead of tolerable.
Crisis comes from in-action. Think about your situation. Now think about when you posted up lazy. Body, mind, or tongue, you left too much undone until the right move moved on. We keep talking this king and queen shit, but if you’re waiting or relying on someone else, a life of crisis will be your crown.
