THE BEAUTIFUL WAR/DIVINE MESSAGE

It’s a beautiful war-this life-how it’s taken after a lovely night. Stary eyes from memories trailing behind a bright future.

Word to God… How you behave is what opens the gates. The path of rejection is paved with the same decisions and behaviors that allow entrance.

The death of failure is about how you livin’ your discipline and how you feed it to your offspring.

My son is going through puberty. Acting like everything he does and feels is new to me. I encourage him to get up and change instead of sitting in pain.

“C’mon dad, I would if I could! You would help more if you left me alone. If you really understood… If you cared… You would give me what I want!” was the message, delivered by an aggressive look and ignoring my direction.

I thought about knocking it out of him. Then I thought- what’s worse- strengthening his sadness or trying to force him out of it. I remembered, when you beat the confused, they make sense out ignorant rules. it will make you a believer in the here and after because they live to haunt you.

WHAT TO DO?

I got angry and thought… Too much soft love makes mean suckers. He needs to see masculinity as rugged instead of made up.

IT’S GOOD TO HAVE EMOTIONS!

You can cry but you also have to fight to overthrow any guide to a soft, weak life.

I told him- at-least change what you’re wearing. Wash off the weary, if your plan is to be a miserable know it all, at-least be happy with your understanding. Because you will always have to answer when your decisions make you question what your what you’re made of.

For all the Father’s wondering “HOW THE FUCK DO I DO THIS?” My advice is Just Don’t Pull Out!