2 Nice To Handle
Art from the movie Casino.
The thought used to be "something ain't right." Now you understand it all.
A damaged woman thinks she's more of a man than a tender, kind, nice guy working to give her everything. And if her man ain't beating her body, pussy and mind she thinks she can fuck him over.
Warning! If she presents your doubts or dislikes as insecurity, the relationship has a problem bigger than your dick can solve. That’s a trick men use when trying to dig deeper than memories of his ladies lost love.
Your secure enough to know your truth and identify a solution but she wants to work on ways to continue and only seem different. Men give chances to correct, but when we are wronged, we willingly become the problem that can't be solved. We are conscious of every flaw and feeling. That's why we can return from war to provide, love gentle, and fuck hard to remind why you wanted us.
Everyone knows the saying “Nice guys finish last. Or every girl wants a bad boy. “
The real lesson is nice guys put their happiness first. They show restraint because they want to be a good man to their woman and family they represent. Nice guys give their woman what she wants, and he wants the same without headache or hurtful challenge.
What would you do Scenario:
Your woman works with a guy, who seems like he's not a threat. They are at an event together and get food that comes with one fork. Instead of walking to get another, she offers him a bite from hers.
When you discuss your disapproval, and for her not to do that again, she says, he didn’t’ use his lips, or some bullshit, pointing to the fact that no saliva was swapped.
You repeat that you didn't like it and for her not to do it again-all in the tone of a calm nice guy, who shouldn't have to yell or be mean to get his point across- especially to his woman. Because BITCH-A REAL MAN DON'T SHARE HIS WOMAN.
She stares at you, to see how serious you are. Looking to see if she can take it as a joke because you're nice enough not to yell or abuse her. Instead of realizing you are man enough to control your rage and treat her like the woman he loves, without allowing hateful rage to cloud his judgement. A behavior she's seen you purposely use to ruin relationships.
And her apology "don’t look at me like that!" Because you look upset by her challenge.
What's a Man to do when his peace is being fucked with?
We take note of who’s the threat-real or pretend. Tough guys always show respect, because they understand the point of no return that comes with violence.
The drama nation we live in makes people believe- If it ain't filled with drama or abuse it's not real love.
Being a Nice Guy. A Gentleman. A Kind Man is harder than loving someone.
A man wants it all his way and usually gets it while alone. So, when he shares his peace, his mind, his, strength, his fears and it's used at any time to help less or weaken him, and he doesn't kill over it, be careful... He's remembering how nice it was to be selfish, which is what the world considers A bad man.
Music I'm Enjoying
Vince Staples album (Dark Times)
Duckworth album (American F*uckboy)
Books I'm Reading
Re-reading NIGGER, by Dick Gregory
Dad Joke
What does the preacher's daughter say when she has sex with the heathen before married?
Holy moly. Oh' my God, what is this spirit I feel in me?
To all the Father's wondering HOW THE FUCK DO I DO THIS?
My advice is "Just don't pull out!"
