Feed The Mind
The goal is to provide what you need, celebrate achieving what you want- and be at peace with the failure you never allowed yourself to become.
ROOTS
Real men hope to see themselves when they look at their kids.
Teach them young, the sheets that matter most give lessons that keep your soul and spirit clean. Books, music, earning money honorably.
I was raised by pillars. They held down and held up blocks. Hustling to make poverty stop. I owe them a thank you, although they needed forgiveness. My crisis and I've had many, made me believe that word meant revenge. You have to put an end to ALL ILL MEANS and intentions that rots a family.
HOUSE RULES
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A man ain't always judged by how he raises his kids but rather by how much he's home. Even if you have a good one, they say- constantly spinning your wheels to go pay bills can't pay the debt of being absent. So be careful what you gamble on, especially if you got love at home.
I say a man also has to get up, get out, and go get it- like my favorite group OUTKAST. Can't gamble on thinking they can tell their kids not to be lazy asses.
Lifes A…
I used to believe sowing my oats made me a better, desirable man. Speaking with slick tongue, making chicks feel the holy ghost with horny strokes and devilish notes.
I had to transcend that through Gods wisdom, knowledge, and understanding - realizing attending to self-improvement is the ingredient to improve life instead of treating and fucking it like…
TRAINING DAY
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The sexiest thing about a woman is...
Being faithful.
Other things that matter to me...
Body!
Booty!
Brains- intelligence and mouth!
Ability to take a compliment and correction,
Ability to give compliments & correction- also know how & when to do it.
Being about her business- personal & family.
Men gotta remember…
When you’re a dog, beware before you enter. It’s no secret how people become rabid.
I remember Biggie said being broke at 30 gives a man the chills. I was broke after 30 and I turned cold on anyone who showed me love was more than stroking my ego to keep my spirits lifted. When you lack, it feels like the good will never come. And you see flaws in anyone loving your failures with more than a prayer.
But my sermon was slick.
It allowed me to maneuver through and into trouble.
Until I was stopped in my tracks like Ricky. Hood boyz get booted by girls when the money ain't loud as the drama coming from running the town with dogs barking at your bitch cuz she’s sniffing their food.
There's nothing more beautiful than a faithful woman.
They need more than a blessing of dick and compliments.
TIME PEACE
Late
Be late to the drama. You know its building when you’re speeding to decisions. Fumbling over words, acting like your nonsense is wisdom.
On Time
Be on time for patience, maneuvering to get you way. They say a gentleman finish last so be..
Late for that drama. If she says no… Wait, then move on. That’s makes others be…
On Time
That’s when love arrives. I was gonna say comes, but you gotta put in work for both.
Early
And often… Find peace of mind. It keeps the soul full, so you don’t treat love like the reaper. We lose too much maturing late using our past, anger, mistakes and grudges as our weapon. That aint the type of time you want to spend your life on.
Peace
Never turn it off. I heard Nipsey Hussle (RIP) recite the quote “Would you rather be at war with yourself and at peace with the world, or at peace with yourself and at war with the world?” That’s a no brainer unless pieces are what you want your life and family in.
Be late for all drama!
Be on time for your family!
That brings peace early and often!
A BLESSED FATHER IS DANGEROUS
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Blessed is the man generous to the poor. So, I learned to bless myself because lack breeds genes families pray to abort.
A blessed father is dangerous!
I've been of poor health and poor mind. I couldn't see the richness of life and having people who want me in theirs. This understanding made me behave like a beggar wearing a king's stature. Robbing and looting. Wrecking people who give and love freely to providers of stability and trust-the definers of beauty.
I counted on transforming ugliness into art. Staining bodies still. Leaving them so soiled it pains to see how real.
The currency of disgust equals profit when stomaching kindness seems scarce and looks weak.
My age of caring is a weapon. It takes life on both ends. It remains sharp and magnificent with each giving. There are more poor in the world than I can spend time helping. I pay them with respect so when it's time to thief life, they won't see me as a debt.
Who are you counting on?
If it's anyone besides yourself-you will hear the heartbeat of doubt before faith dwindles.
Breaths held; eyes scan for exits when help overwhelms. That's when you need to create offense instead of taking offence.
The man who can create his can never be owned.
To all the Fathers wondering "HOW THE FUCK DO I DO THIS?" My advice is Just don't pull out!
Family Dynamics
A life of loneliness comes from busting up homes. Attitudes that make lovers wonder how they never hated… You… Made them hate everything about themselves. They expired by your side, under your watchful eye.
C.A.L.M.-AF
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Calling All Loving Male Alpha Fathers
CALM
When I hear myself. The rage. The disappointment. The world makes you feel being a gentleman is for pussies because everybody just wants to get fucked.
Find a way to be as close to the elevation as possible. I call that a solid struggle. Climbing up makes you keep your eyes open, educate and strategize. See the applause and eyes pleading and darting towards unhappiness. You will also see the ones who are focusing on the target.
CALM
On the way down. It’s filled with rage. You can close your eyes and just go. But you need to be calm enough to see where you’re headed and who pushed you to keep going.
CALM
When you get love from strangers you never felt at home. It can turn you the zombie twin of the person withholding love from you.
CALM
When you start to hate yourself. It comes with a change in morals.
CALM
When you start to love yourself. It also comes with a change in morals.
You gotta choose which GOD you want to take over you.
Some peoples Children!
The baddest bitch got pimples and a stench that made their man say NEXT!
Some people everything they can get. The greedy are always too full to give a shit.
WATCHMEN
It's hard to be good. Anyone who says otherwise never tried. The bad take advantage. They soften hearts, seduce flesh, and create what seems like unfair chance. They understand everyone wants attention.
They act like a friendly prick, inching to find out how much they can get away with. Always there for your woman. Giving them a place to rest their heads for comfort when red is all she sees. Catch it or wave goodbye to morals, because they will choose chaos to fill a beach.
How Father’s Transcend
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I used to think it was what I heard in song “A bitch so bad I don’t see her flaws” Then fake became the new real. Divorce and behaving trifling became mass appeal.
Love is a plague to fools. But, for Fathers manning their home-injecting discipline- it’s the miracle drug.
Lyric quote “A bitch so bad I don’t see her flaws” by JEEZY - (Never Settle)
What A Fathers Depression Feels like
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The nightmare of a good man trapped in the passing of love. Feeling everyone gets it but him. Hating himself for not showing enough. Because he believes success is about personal achievements and being able to spend money, not just time. Broke love is distorted, and when you come poverty, it feels like a crime.
It feels like the family always deserves and desires more. Then he creates distance to make his family full of emptiness because it keeps him whole.
The Seasons Of…
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Can you hear it?
Can you feel it?
The wind sharing lessons.
Harsh and gentle. Saying change- because nothing ever stays the way you meant it.
Adjust or it’s howl won’t be the only fuss.
You don’t need a reason to love.
What you wanna be when you grow up?
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Painful.
A cool Nigga. Gangsta with my decisions.
Poison.
See prison to make sense of my mental environment. Have the crack dealer, killer charisma.
You see Damage. I see successful results.
Got the school of hard knocks- handle your bidness- chill nigga- family addicted to trauma- beating spouses and children until they feel and sense karma wisdom.
Don’t talk about it.
No crying out loud. Sensitive ass. Niggaz expressing feelings is the problem- making men soft and full of sass. Like a pimp’s perm pressing bitches till they turn. Living an unhealthy life leaves your children with a sick spirit when you die. That’s why we fight to escape a life we want to survive.
Narrative.
Be a grown ass man, hold that shit in, let your defecation out behind the walls in your home. Get low in your own shit, high and oblivious to your stench. Sell your disgust. It’s the drug dragging families away from morality.
Anecdote
Pay your family with time spent- holding, kissing, hugging, discipling, advising. Providing in person instead of through purchasing and apologizing. Invest. Stocks and insurance. Build a life they want more of- it pays itself forward.